It’s her birthday, but Marnie Devlin wants to give others a gift

(EDITOR’S NOTE: After the main story, we have a side note from someone whose life might be saved by a donor found this way. This isn’t someone Marnie pointed out, but someone who was sharing news about it on Facebook. Please be sure to read past the jump for her story.)

By Keri DeTore
Reporting for West Seattle Blog

As she nears her 25th birthday, Marnie Devlin has been thinking about ways to make a difference. “My friends seem to have these ‘quarter-life’ crises where they wonder about their (life) directions, and I’ve always laughed and thought they were being silly. But now (turning 25) I think maybe I should do something I can point to as an accomplishment.”

Coming from a family of blood donors, and being an EMT, Marnie is well aware of the need for bone marrow donors, and the importance of getting people signed up with the National Marrow Donor Program. She says, “I realized it how easy it is and I thought if my friends knew how easy it is, most of them would sign up. My original idea was to get 25 people signed up for my 25th birthday. I posted my idea on Facebook and Twitter, where the (Puget Sound) Blood Center saw it and wanted to help.”

Thanks to the collaboration with the Puget Sound Blood Center and a number of local businesses, Marnie is hosting a full-on marrow donor registration event this Sunday (April 3rd) at Alki Arts (2820 Alki Avenue SW.) Owner Diane Venti is donating the space and from 2-6 pm, Marnie will be serving champagne and goodies baked by her family while PSBC registers potential marrow donors for the Be The Match program.

Marnie explains that because people think the registration procedure involves something painful and invasive, they won’t do it. Turns out, that’s wrong.

She explains, “It’s just a cheek swab (swabbing the inside of the cheek with a Q-tip) and signing up. There are no needles on the day of registration!”

The Be The Match website explains that while there are currently millions of donors, more are needed, especially from people with diverse ethnic backgrounds and from people of color.

And if you are found to be a match with someone needing marrow? Marnie says, “If you’re called, it’s a one-day outpatient procedure where the marrow is taken from your hip bone. Afterward, you feel like you fell on your butt skateboarding.”

Local businesses have donated items to be raffled on the day of the event. Marnie notes that it costs the Be The Match Foundation approximately $100 per new registration, and money collected from the raffle will go to the Foundation to help offset the cost of registering all the new donors signed up during the event.

Former classmate Joanna Menashe at Menashe & Sons Jewelers in the Junction initiated the idea of the raffle. While Marnie was putting up an event poster in the shop’s window, Joanna offered a freshwater pearl necklace to help raise funds.

Other local businesses including Capers, Feedback Lounge (WSB sponsor) and Seattle Style Salon followed suit and have all donated raffle items. Cactus Restaurant on Alki will be offering a 25% discount to everyone who registers during the event on Sunday, and will even honor the discount during Happy Hour.

Marc Chatalas, owner of Cactus, said, “People like Marnie are what makes West Seattle so unique and such a great community. When (she) asked if we’d like to be involved, we were flattered and eager to help. We’re happy to offer a discount as an incentive and we’ve also been letting our guests know about the bone marrow drive.”

Marnie says the support she’s been getting from friends, family and the community for this event has been “amazing. I’ve lived in West Seattle my whole life and have always loved it, and thought it was a great place. This is a reminder of how great it is.”

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EDITOR’S NOTE: As a testimony to the support this is drawing – someone who doesn’t even know Marnie shared news of the bone-marrow registry drive on Facebook. Her name is Christy Bemis; what she wrote suggested there is more to her story, so we asked if she would share it:

I have a rare blood disorder called PNH, or paroxysmal hemoglobinuria. I’ve been
sick since 1989 when I was 9 years old, I am 32 now. My blood disorder began with Aplastic Anemia causing total bone marrow failure and I relied on daily platelet and weekly red cell transfusions until the AA became PNH. Back then my family did fundraisers to pay to search the numerous registries all over the world for a bone marrow match. At that time each registry cost from $500 to $10,000 just for the preliminary search. None of it was covered by insurance and I was given 3-6 months to live.

My current medical status is still grim; on average PNH patients live 10 years. I was diagnosed with PNH in 1991 and no treatment existed except a transplant. We did everything possible to raise awareness and get people to join the registry. My face was on billboards in Seattle, my Mother and I were on the news and in the papers, we even convinced Pete Nordstrom to pay for all Nordstrom employees to join the registry covering the registration fees many can not offord. But we never found a match.

In March of 2007, a treatment was finally FDA-approved for PNH. I wouldn’t have made it even one more month without this medication. Unfortunately, the medication I cannot live without, Soliris from Alexion Pharmaceuticals, is the most expensive medication in the world, retailing at $700,000 a year raking in an amazing $234 million from the 8,000 patients on this medication. The only cure for my disease, and so many other diseases, is a bone-marrow transplant.

When we last looked in the registry for a match for me, they told me my genetic numbers are rare and I have a one in a million chance someone will match me. The way they put these things always makes me feel like finding a bone-marrow match is like playing a lottery, a lottery where I hold 20 million tickets and still lose. But every person that joins the bone-marrow registry is one more chance at life for me and so many others. Even if in joining the registry you don’t match me, you will give me hope, and that is something everyone waiting for a transplant of any kind needs just as much.

14 Replies to "It's her birthday, but Marnie Devlin wants to give others a gift"

  • JanS March 31, 2011 (7:43 pm)

    My congratulations to Marnie. It’s not many people who would do this for others. What a great present to give to the world. I had a bone marrow biopsy last August, and it was a piece of cake. It was followed in short haste by a renal biopsy…again, easy peasy. I am going to be on the receiving end of a different kind of transplant. Mine is a kidney (first visit to transplant clinic next Tuesday), and I have someone who has offered me a kidney, although we don’t know if she’s a total match yet. She’s my daughter. And, if she’s not, well, I go on a list of 86,000 or so people.

    For Christy Bemis above, her odds sound like they’re much greater than mine. West Seattle is such a giving community. I hope, hope, hope that many of you step up to try and help her. If I could do it, I would be there in an instant. Let’s show the city what we’re made of and help these people set some registry records. I know this community can do it.

  • Genessee neighbor March 31, 2011 (7:54 pm)

    Marnie, what a wonderful thing to do and I love the fact that your generation is stepping up to the plate to help others. Happy 25th birthday and I wish you HUGE success for the benefit on many.

  • kumalavula March 31, 2011 (7:57 pm)

    being a bone marrow donor or an organ donor involves paying such a small price (perceived pain or potential discomfort) in exchange, in some instances, for someone’s new lease on life. as jan commented above, people in need of organs can wait months or years and in some cases, even die waiting. this happens all over our country and can easily be prevented if more people were educated. as someone with a congenital kidney disease that is looking at either dialysis or a transplant down the road, i echo jan’s comments above: this community is made up of amazing people. you need to know you can truly make a difference. please consider becoming a potential donor at this upcoming event on alki or when you renew your driver’s license, etc.

  • sarelly March 31, 2011 (7:57 pm)

    Is there an age limit to being a donor, and are there health restrictions similar to those for being a blood donor? Oops – never mind, just checked the National Donor site for medical restrictions – there are not many.

  • Betsy March 31, 2011 (8:13 pm)

    wow that is amazing!! I have been in West seattle my whole life and I love it here… I will be there for sure… goodluck and I hope many will come!

  • Cait March 31, 2011 (8:52 pm)

    Marnie, thank you for giving me hope about our generation’s capacity for caring and that is worth at the very least a cheek swab from me. So impressed how you put this together! See you Sunday!

  • ellenater March 31, 2011 (9:50 pm)

    This is phenomenal. Thanks Marnie and also to Christy for sharing your story. I am signing up on Sunday.

  • Ruth March 31, 2011 (10:23 pm)

    Happy birthday & good for you Marnie. By bringing attention to Be The Match & having this donor drive, you are helping to potentially save so many lives! I honor you. Please visit this website & read about my friend Kent, who is alive because of a wonderful donor…www.klingmanopen.org/how.php…. If anyone is on the fence about registering, I hope this story inspires you off the fence.

  • Paula Tortorice April 1, 2011 (1:40 am)

    Happy Birthday, Marnie! What a wonderful gift you are giving to our community. I’ve been on the Be The Match Registry for over a year thanks to my daughter telling me about it. I hope many more sign up!

  • Mom2.0 April 1, 2011 (8:07 am)

    I just saw a great presentation, Creating Infectious Action, that featured a bone marrow donor drive. And now I can actually do it! Thank you Marnie, I’ll see you on Sunday. And tell all my friends.

    If you don’t already get the importance of being a registered donor, please watch this. It’ll change you: http://www.web2expo.com/webexsf2011/public/schedule/detail/17721

  • Teri April 1, 2011 (1:13 pm)

    Marnie, thank you for your tremendous support and fantastic idea! I am glad you are recieving so much support in your efforts. I work for the Puget Sound Blood Center in the Cord Blood Program, where we also collect stem cells from the umbilical cord blood. These stem cells are also used for stem cell transplant through the National Marrow Donor Program. So if you do have interested followers that would like to participate through the birth of their child, they can learn more at http://www.psbc.org/cordblood. Have a wonderful 25th Birthday, and we wish you much success!

  • Nicole April 1, 2011 (8:09 pm)

    I’m inspired, I’ll be there, and I hope you’ll report on the outcome! I have a feeling your wished for 25 will be a heck of a lot more . . . Happy Birthday and thousands of blessings to Marnie.

  • West Seattleite April 3, 2011 (7:06 pm)

    I didn’t even read the story – as Marnie IS the gift !!

  • Jw April 5, 2011 (5:48 am)

    Wow….after reading that story of that amazing and courageous woman, I am registering at PSBC, God I hope I am a match for Christy B or someone else, what an honor that would be!!! Jw

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